Post | June 2023 | Volunteer Stories | 1 min read
"Sue Ryder Stagenhoe was like our home, we were one big family"

Meet Rex, Volunteer at Sue Ryder Stagenhoe
Rex has pledged the same amount of time to Sue Ryder Stagenhoe that they provided his dear late Wife Shelia.
"Sue Ryder Stagenhoe was like our home, we were one big family. I really enjoy my two days volunteering with the residents activities. It's my way of giving back to a very worthy cause that helped my Wife. It makes me happy to be here"
Rex has donated a beautiful bench and canopy for the residents to enjoy in the gardens in memory of Shelia.
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